Saturday, July 5, 2014

Massive cold approaching vs Massive club hopping Article review



Massive cold approaching vs Massive club hopping Article review I am against massive cold approaching (I am for cold approach which is gaming total strangers, but not MASSIVE TYPE COLD APPROACH) for many reasons: It is emotionally exhausting. It diminishes your self worth and feeling of importance. It is not fun. You will burn yourself out in venues, specially smaller venues and bars. It is not efficient. It does not have high possibility of success. You come across as a beggar instead of a chooser. In some cases it can be socially awkward and uncalibrated. It may lead to fights and you getting kicked out of venues in some cases. It is a lot of work. With all that being said it does work, if you throw enough shit to a wall eventually something will stick, but it is as i previously mentioned not efficient and leads to burn out physical, emotional, mentally and in venues. So what is a better way, a better way is to mass approach clubs, so pick a strip or a location were there are many clubs that you could go cheap or for free. So let me illustrate with analogies and examples. Let say you go to club xyz and there are 500 people, out of those 200 are women and 50 are fuckable/your type, so let say you mass approach the 50 women and the first 10 tell you to fuck off. Just by the beginning girls telling you to fuck off it will affect your confidence, no matter how confident you are. Let say some of the girls are around seeing was going on, and just seeing you approaching over and over and getting shut down, your coolness factor in the club will kind of drop to loser status, get me?; Then, as the night progresses you won't be able to open or hook girls even if you are their type due to group thinking (if that girl shut him down then i need to shut him down to remain a cool girl and keep my social standing). Article can be found here: http://ift.tt/1mVfjld Join my channel: http://ift.tt/1gzGJyq

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