Nice guys vs Bad Boys The Nice Guy Syndrome- How to stop being a nice guy

Nice guys vs Bad Boys The Nice Guy Syndrome- How to stop being a nice guy http://ift.tt/1qPwYQ3 About this book: No More Mr. Nice Guy: This controversial e-book phenomenon became a best-seller and landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O'Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. Dr. Robert Glover has devoted his career as a psychotherapist to freeing men from what he was dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome"-trying too hard to please others while neglecting their own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It's no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frustration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover. He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential. Learn more: No More Mr. Nice Guy is a GREAT book However, the title is misleading, the purpose of the book is to boost confidence and help men reclaim power in their lives, it does not make men jerks. The author points out that you are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness. By boosting a man's confidence and ensuring the man's needs are met, women are naturally more attractive to these men. The greatest aphrodisiac is self-confidence. Learn more about the book No More Mr. Nice guy The characteristics of "Nice Guys" are men who have difficulty setting boundaries in relationships with women and become doormats. The men often feel as helpless victims and seeing another person as the cause of problems. Many nice guys live life trying to gain approval for others. Many nice guys did not have their needs met as boys. As a coping mechanism to try to get their needs met, they try to be nice. Later in life, Nice Guys apply the skills learned as a boy in dealing with women - by being nice - it does not work. When being nice does not work, the Nice Guys try to be even nicer. Learn more about the book No More Mr. Nice Guy: Men need to set healthy boundaries in relationships with women. Avoiding conflicts in relationships is problematic - Women do not feel safe with a man they know they can push around. A woman wants to know you will stand up to her. That is how she will feel secure in the relationship. There is a catch - she has to test to see if she can trust you. When you set a boundary, she may strongly test and push against the boundary. She will tell you that you are wrong for having the boundary and do her best to find out if the boundary is for real. Generally, when women feel secure, they feel loved. When a man stands up to a woman, she believes he will likely stand up for her. For more info go to my blog at: http:theplayersupremeshow or join me here on youtube at http://ift.tt/1mahxT6 Traits to be aware of for nice guys vs bad boys: The difference between nice guys and bad boys basically nice guys vs bad boys Here are some traits of the bad boy bad boys Are challenges, not feet-kissing doormats bad boys Don't make excuses for who they are -- they exude sexuality and they're comfortable with their natural masculinity bad boys Assume that they're "the catch," not the woman bad boys Are unpredictable, untamed and can't be tied down bad boys Aren't afraid of being who they are bad boys Have no interest in being PC, morphing their true selves to gain female approval, or being overly nice Want to learn more about nice guys vs bad boys? Here are more traits of the bad boy bad boys Don't have to trade money or gifts for sex (a.k.a. "dating") bad boys Always control the relationship bad boys Never tolerate any female BS bad boys Radiate sexually-charged body language bad boys Flirt easily and well bad boys Are natural leaders, not followers Nice guy traits: Men who are not sexually confident: Nice guys-Seek approval from women Nice guys-Cater or pander to women Nice guys-Are predictable and boring Nice guys Call women every day or worse, many times a day (clingy, needy) Nice guys Try to buy their time and attention with meals, gifts, etc. Nice guys Are nervous, insecure or overly nice around women Nice guys Act like women's friends instead of their lovers Nice guys Are available at the drop of a hat Nice guys Tolerate without protest rude behavior, cancelled dates, etc. Nice guys Go out of their way to please women in the hope of getting laid Nice guys Let women control the relationship Nice guys Are afraid that if they do "something wrong," she'll leave Nice guys Grovel, beg, or are desperate for sex Nice guys Obsess about and over-analyze